Autism Support – What Should I Do After Getting a Diagnosis of Autism?
Yes, you will need autism support but the most important thing to remember after your child is diagnosed with autism is that he is still the same child he was before. Try not to panic too much or think about him too differently. He is still your child, whom you love, and who loves you too, even if he doesn't always show it.
But once a diagnosis arrives, it is now time to seriously find autism support for you and your child with autism.
Join an Autism Support Group
There are many autism support groups you can join, both online and off. The Autism Society of America is one resource that should have a list of any groups local to you [www.autism-society.org]; and there are plenty to be found by using Google to search for resources.
Try to figure out what your child's biggest strengths and weaknesses are. By doing this, you can figure out the areas in which he needs the most help. Try to research autism support options, but try not to get overwhelmed as there is a vast amount out there, not all of which will work. They are really individual to your child.
Figure Out What Autism Support Options Are Available To You Locally
According to Craig Kendall, author of numerous books on autism and Asperger's syndrome,
Many times the best support resources are other parents who have children with autism. You can turn to these parents for support.
A great place to meet parents and find an autism support group is the site www.meetup.com. If you go there you can type in your zip code and a topic and it will list lots of groups that meet near you. Type in autism or learning disorders or special needs children or Asperger's syndrome…all of these may direct you to other moms who are facing the same issues which you face.
If you live in a bigger city, you will have access to more autism support resources than if you live in a rural area. Figure out how far you can travel and how much you can afford to spend on treatment. Insurance sometimes only covers a small amount of what is needed to cover treatment costs. (See the article, Many Health Plans Now Must Cover Autism Symptoms Diagnosis)
Local Colleges and Universities May Have Great Autism Support
Another great autism support resource is a local college or university. Most colleges and universities have autism support services and/or student support groups for students with autism. Most students in college will have high functioning autism or Asperger's syndrome. But many of these groups meet casually and your loved one may be able to join them to find friends.
Autism Support through Your Local School System
Autism support for speech, occupational, and behavioral therapies are usually available through the school district; you can decide if you want to add any additional therapies after you start these.
Remember to take time to look after your own needs as well as your child's. Replenish yourself so you can give your child the best of yourself…remember you need support too. Try not to let the diagnosis overtake every aspect of your life; give yourself permission to think about other things every once in a while as you develop your autism support network.
Hopefully, with some luck (and hard work) you will find the autism support and resources that can make life a little easier for your family and your child with autism. For additional tips and suggestions that can help your loved one live a fulfilling and happy life see The Autism Survival Guide and other resources by Craig Kendall.
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